EVERYBODY IS JEALOUS OF SOMEONE OR SOMETHING. EVEN YOU! …WINKS…
Ok, i would try to make this post as simple as i can… yeah…
So let me start by saying jealousy is a good thing. yes baby, it is…
And if you have never been jealous of anyone or anything, hey, we need to check your DNA; to be sure you are human.
Being jealous is a proof that you want to be great and you really want the best for yourself.
This is because when you separate selfishness from jealousy, you can only be jealous of someone who is truly better than you. yeah… face it dear, he/she is better than you. …winks… But that’s a good thing you know, because it simply means you also want to be better.
Now here is the problem; “when you begin to wish a person evil because of what they have or what they have achieved”.
Alright, i understand you are jealous, but you don’t have to wish anyone evil or even go as far as plotting them evil naah….
Jealousy can be channeled in two ways, precisely two opposite ways.
So, you are either jealous in a good and productive way or jealous in a bad and destructive way. Being on the fence can be self killing. talk for another day.
Here is the core of this post; aspire to jealousy but be Modest, Godly and Considerate about it. this may sound a little beat diverting, but like i stated earlier, I intend to be as simple as much as i can.
Since you can only be jealous of something that you admire and want for yourself, why not prepare yourself to be ready to receive such just in case it comes by. And it always does comes by. (but you lose it when you are not prepared for it)
THIS IS THE RULE — When ever you become jealous of someone, first try to be grateful for that person. This may be a little difficult, but pause: think about what they must have been through to be were they are now or have what they now possess.
If you go in details on this, you may just discover you don’t even want what they have anymore sincerely, because you can’t go through what they have been through.
You could also become honest with yourself and get to work because you see what it is they have done better.
Whatever you are jealous of, you can achieve! Even much more!! Do you agree with this?
Only be jealous in a Good and Godly manner. 😍
Let your jealousy spur you to work more on yourself! Not necessarily trying to be like the other person, but becoming the very best of you!!!
But now, what is jealousy? 😉